There are a few legal and financial issues that should be addressed before your son or daughter goes off to college. When your child turns 18 they are legally an adult, and you lose the legal authority to make decisions on their behalf. This means you have no legal right to see their grades, manage finances (although you remain responsible for paying college tuition), or make medical decisions or speak with their doctor. So, once they arrive on campus, consider asking them to sign some documents that will allow you to continue to help.
· FERPA release: with your child’s permission, you can speak with the college about their performance. Colleges often have their own FERPA release forms, so ask your college for a copy.
· HIPAA Authorization: allows you to access your child’s health records and speak to their doctors about medical issues.
· Advance Care Directive for Health Care: allows you to act on your adult child’s behalf in the event that they are incapacitated and unable to make decisions.
· Durable Power of Attorney: allows you to act on your adult child’s behalf regarding legal or financial matters.
You can get the last three forms mentioned from your family lawyer. Each of these forms can be revoked at any time, but having them in place while your child is away at college makes sense.
This is also a good time to address money management issues.
· Set up a bank account that will allow you to easily transfer money to your student’s account.
· Health insurance: check out options provided by the college and compare these policies with your existing family medical coverage.
· Car insurance: check with your agent. If your child will not have a car at college, you may be eligible for a discount on your auto rate.
· Discuss credit card dangers: college students are besieged with credit card offers—discuss how the misuse of credit cards can affect their ability to get credit in the future. Look into debit card options or provide your offspring with a card in your name that can be monitored.